SFHS Academy Brief
February 2010
 
 

 

Last month, I addressed understanding Gen-Y employees; however, as you know, not all people “fit the mold” and are unique among their age group.  The ultimate workplace goal is for every employee to treat every other employee with respect and as an individual.  If one person’s personality is so different from his or her peer’s that they have trouble communicating, there a number of options:


Identify the root problem:  Is the person difficult to work with, or is the group just not willing to include someone else who is different?  Does the person have poor interpersonal skills or is he or she just an individual who is particularly unique?  If the person lacks adequate interpersonal skills or has some other characteristic that interferes with the ability to work well with others, there are ways that the issue can be addressed, for example, through training and one-on-one coaching.  If the person is simply unique, then it’s the team that needs educating.  A good approach would be to do some team building.  This can be as simple as arranging for everyone to have lunch together or organizing more formal team building exercises (contact me at lnelson@sfhs.org for resources).

Generational judgments  (i.e. “These kids just don’t know anything”) should not be tolerated any more than people judging each other by race, ethnic group or gender.

 

While the intergenerational model is a useful tool in understanding people, it is best to treat team members as individuals with their own backgrounds, experience, values and personalities.  The goal is simple:  treat everyone with respect.

Team leaders and members should:

  • Communicate through their attitude and behavior that every generation offers something important to the workplace and that mutual respect is a priority. 
  • Avoid expecting less or more of someone because of his/her age.
  • Avoid making assumptions (i.e. believing that a young person prefers to work on a computer or an older person prefers not to).
  • Be open to discussing differences of any kind that are interfering with team functioning.
  • Be open to talking to co-workers from different generations about their backgrounds and interests.
  • Address performance issues as such – not intergenerational differences.

Help a team meld by ensuring that each person’s role has been clearly defined and is understood by everyone involved. Set rules for team interaction so that everyone gets to speak (i.e. conduct a Circle 6 exercise).  Make it clear that team members are not allowed to criticize each other; rather, each should focus on improving on one another’s ideas.
Source: Jo Renee Find, Ph.D., Director of Training & Content Dvlp., Harris, Rothenberg

 

 
 
Quote of the day:  “Individual commitment to a group effort – that is what makes teamwork, a company work, a society work, a civilization work.”  – Vince Lombardi

 

 

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Leah Nelson